Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Do we need a reason

If I had one wish, we would be best friends
Love would never end, it would just begin
If I had one wish, you would be my boo
Promise to love you, trust me I'll trust you

The above I think is a good lyric, taken from Ray J - One Wish. Although it's not the most compelling or moving verse ever written I think it holds up well for where I am at the moment. If you are thinking the stand out word is love then you need to look a little deeper and you also need to look away from my page and check yourself hahaha Recognise...

Seriously though I don't really mind what is made of it as the way I see it lyrics, movies, television shows are interpreted differently by everyone. You see the thing is everyone is like an Ogre I think as we are all onions, we all have this view of ourselves whether it's fashion, looks or whatever we have values inside us that matter. What matters most to me could mean nothing to someone else.

Take me as a father for an example, now a lot has been made about how much I see them but in all fairness I have scenarios I can't resolve. Now I love my two children, they mean everything to me and when I lived with them it was the hectic mornings that meant so much to me. Them waking up and getting into bed, telling me they wanted breakfast and sitting at the table with them and then getting them ready. To someone else that could be annoying something that they want to get away from but not be.

It's all about perspective my dears that's what it all comes down to and leads me on to being genuine. Now I reckon the majority of people judge others on how genuine they are, be it on appearance or what kind of person someone is but how real are these people. Is it an act, when you get to know them are they the same person once you get close. Will things change, will aspects about you change. Once the onion layers start coming away are you left with a prune instead of an onion.

Spoke today about the well known three months of dating someone and when you see them for their true colours. Is this just an urban myth, does it have substance and can you really tell about someone when you reach this time limit. Is this just an insecurity like another layer of an onion, kind of like a get out of jail free card. Just so that people can move on or just play the field with the added cushion of the three month thing.

I am prepared to put this to rest and say that I don't believe it as if you like someone and have put yourself in the window to impress with your good points then only you know when you take yourself out of that window. I would say if I were in a window I would have taken myself down by now as I am happy and plus who needs a window as a stage when you have the World. I will stand up and let it be known how I am doing as I like to think I am genuine and not out to impress but instead to make the best of whatever I can !! x